Quote: I'm going to try to avoid the Kevin Merry-Go-Round . . and just wait patiently while he builds his new job . . gets rid of OW . . . and gets his head straight.
You must let him work this out. You have to work on you. You can both care for Kiya together - you can both pray together for her - you can both take care of your children together.
But IMHO - you are not ready for him to pop back into your life yet AND he is not even close. Wasn't he engaged to OW just a few days ago? All this proves is that he has some serious issues and what you don't need in your life is this "anchor" right now. I am not saying you cannot save your M - but he needs to fix himself while you fix you!
Otherwise, not only will Kevin be on the Kevin-Go-Round - but you will be on it too. I don't know how many times you can take getting thrown off of it. It is time to stop the merry-go-round and solve some problems. Only then can you get back to an R or M. JMHO.
(((((((((Emily)))))))))))
More prayers for Kiya are in order and Emily - don't let him tear you down ever again - be Emily, be strong, stand up for yourself, listen to him but don't be a doormat to him ever again.
