Callista I understand just what you are saying about him having to prove certain things.
That said . . . .
This is where I am confused. Do I proceed cautiously back into the R or do I tell him NO. He would like to "try again" . . so do I say OK . . . prove it. Keep my mindset to where he'll more than likely "run out" again . . .but try anyway . . . and see if he proves himself. Or do I shut it all down now . . and I tell I want nothing to do with sitch.
That's where I am confused. I understand that chances are he'll backslide. . . and he's proven thus far that he can't make up his mind. I am sooo unsure of how to proceed. With the R or without it.
I didn't catch it if you tried to tell me Callista . . SORRY! If you've been following my sitch then you'll know that I'm hard of hearing . . or listening . . and just plain hard headed!
I mean there are things I would definately need from him . .
I.E. Proof that he is not on drugs (which I confronted him about lastnight) I think maybe we should do individual or joint counciling (hard with his work schedule. . . but something is better than nothing)
Any other good ones you all can think of?
Any and all advice is as always appreciated. Don't worry I haven't jumped the fence yet . . .I'm waiting to see what kind of responses I get.
GH . . not sure if you were telling me to be loving and try it or if you simply had to make the joke
I would LOVE to know why women love complete a$$holes . . . seems to fit my sitch to a T!
