Thanks RB!
I know you're right . . .
I was going to check out my xBIL's page . . . where I expected nothing about my H to be honestly!
He had just called me last week to chat and was quite friendly.
So I hadden't been to check out the latest in his life lately (he has a girlfriend living up where I am living). .
and BAM to my shock . . like a kick in the teeth!

I certainly won't go there anymore.
I never expected all of that.

That kinda knocked my PMA down a few pegs.
I'm still alright . . only I just have started to think about H again.

UGH . . . this whole divorce process of grief really is a pain in the A!!!

I'll be around!
Hope you all are having a GREAT night!!