Alright . . .when I went for my doctors appointment today.
I was reminded that Kiya had to have another hearing screening (she wasn't hearing out of the right ear at birth) . . . so we went and her right ear is registering NOTHING.
Kevin's Aunt Wendy (the one who kidney's went about 12 years ago) was ALSO born without hearing in the right ear (I called his mother and talked to her about it).
It's not looking good for my poor baby!!! I am soooooooo stressed! At least now I have the knowledge so I can get on the doctors about it.
I got my birthcontrol sorted out.
My doctor didn't think I need anti-depressants. So I guess that could be bad news. She said if I get to the point where I like cry myself to sleep everynight or anything I should call her back. But with everything going on she thinks what I am feeling is normal. Should I call my primary doctor (not my OB) and get her opinion?
What a freakin day! Please pray extra hard for us.
Thanks Santhony . . . the prayers are definately appreciated!!!
WOW! I called my H again and just left him a message saying I had gotten more bad news about Kiya and I'd like to discuss it with him. Well see what he does.
Quote: Kevin's Aunt Wendy (the one who kidney's went about 12 years ago) was ALSO born without hearing in the right ear (I called his mother and talked to her about it).
I would find out everything possible about Aunt Wendy's medical diagnosis - could this possibly be some kind of genetic syndrome? It would be useful to know more about her lab results, etc.
Forget about your H right now - trying to get help from a drug-using guy in the midst of an affair is a major cheeseless tunnel.
Well she had complete kidney failure about 12 years ago. She goes to dialysis about 3 times a week. She's constantly in and out of the hospital. She really needs a transplant . . but she's far too heavy and her teeth are bad (they are worried the infection in her teeth would cause an infection elsewhere and she would reject the kidney anyway.) She's alive . . . and she's a fighter . . But she's been living without her kidneys for about 12 years now.
She may have had the same problems Kiya is having now . . but no one really knows. She wasn't into going to the doctor. Hell she got pregnant and NEVER told ANYONE until (denied it herself) until the baby was coming out in the toilet and my MIL drove her to the hospital. She's went ever since the kidney failure . . but before that . . NO. Her Dad actually found her pretty much dead in her room and had her rushed to hopsital.
So I guess the best thing I can do it stress the importance of prevention to the doctors. I am going to try calling the med center tomorrow . . and explaining the sitch in futher detail . . and see if I can get them to see her earlier than 6 weeks. This really has me scared.
Oh a lighter note . . I see Amy's thread finally locked down. THANK GOD the filthy thing . . .
I can't wait to see what she comes up with next!
Don't worry kml . . . my H has QUICKLY been put on the backburner . . . I just really wish he'd stand up and be a man for his "sick" daughter.
Man did we have a night tonight. Felina wouldn't go to bed and she didn't nap. Thank God the other Emily was here. She got herself so worked up she was throwing up and Kiya was in the middle of wanting to eat . . . So I went up and cleaned up the pukey one and Emily helped with Kiya. Man . . . it's hard to do this all alone sometimes. Not that H would have helped anyway. HE won't do vomit and he doesn't do little babies either . . . I'm rolling my eyes by the way!
My phone rang almost every five minutes! Everyone and their brother was calling me to check on things . . . everyone except the one other person that should REALLY REALLY care about Kiya. So yeah . . . I just get more and more pi$$ed at him everyday!!
AMY you are a bad influence. I just clicked my way from Google onto a porn site! JEESH! I was just trying to look up shoes . . and BLAM . . . up it came . . I guess I should read the little blurb better huh? YIKES . . NOW unlike you though I didn't enter . . just clicked the X in the corner of the screen . . . HA Just thought I'd let you know . . . it still happens to the best of us!
Goodmorning everyone. Man EVERYONE must have been praying HARD lastnight . . . I woke up this morning calmer and with a better PMA!
I am worried to death about my daughter . . . that's probably a good thing . . gives me less time to think about H and OW. I know that like kml said trying to get him to do what he should is a major cheeseless tunnel . . but I'll say this now. He never called. I left him that VM and he still hasn't called. Some great Daddy he is. UGH! How could I have picked so poorly?
