Quote: Does he just invite himself over? Please don't invite him in. Emily, this guy's feelings NEED to be hurt right now. He needs to learn that you are still married and it's not appropriate for you to begin another relationship until if and when you are divorced.
Emily, if you want to change that, you can file for D, but this guy is too desperate to be a good candidate for you anyway. My fear is that you'll fall for another guy too soon, simply because the pain and lonliness are so intense ... I'm very glad that you're pushing this guy away.
YES he comes right in without knocking too. Creepy . . I started having to lock my door AT ALL TIMES. Just to keep him from walking in.
No RB I don't want to change anything. I told my H after AmyC and I talked about this. That it'll be almost 2 years until we are divorced. Because of the way he is filing it . . . I don't know if you caught that convo or not.
I don't want to be divorced . . . I don't want a relationship. If I did decide to date . . he could be LAST man on the planet and I still wouldn't get with him. I happen to think that not smelling is an IMPORTANT quality.
