Quote: I can't believe that guy. He'll be back . . . he won't take no for an answer (makes me VERY VERY uncomfortable.) He just kept asking me why I was tense and seemed uncomfortable and then would quickly say, "Don't be uncomfortable with me.) Guys I don't know what I am going to do about him. I kept doing EVERYTHING to get the point across (aside from total ignorance and throwing him out.) I don't want to hurt his feelings . . he's a nice enough guy when he's not "romantically" interested in you.
Does he just invite himself over? Please don't invite him in. Emily, this guy's feelings NEED to be hurt right now. He needs to learn that you are still married and it's not appropriate for you to begin another relationship until if and when you are divorced.
Emily, if you want to change that, you can file for D, but this guy is too desperate to be a good candidate for you anyway. My fear is that you'll fall for another guy too soon, simply because the pain and lonliness are so intense ... I'm very glad that you're pushing this guy away.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)