GH, Wonderful news! Remember, you are scoring for all of us now In all seriousness though, be careful of the letdown that can follow these things. I know in my own case once you've overcome the physical intimacy boundary (or even the promise of it) I began to feel down! I felt like things should be getting better faster and they weren't (and still aren't). It can lead to high expectations that may not be realistic. That's me though, your sitch may well be on that path to Nirvana, who knows. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.