GH...Some of your latest post really hit home with me...I have done the same thing in the past...not listening but always trying to fix and end up invalidating. One of the things I am really working on...I think it is a small thing that can make a huge difference. Just so natural for a man to look for ways to correct the problem. I think I have been doing well so far but have to keep reminding myself to listen...don't talk...agree/empathize don't fix.
"Friendship is like peeing your pants: everyone can see it, but only you can feel the true warmth."
