Quote: Discrediting Anna's opinion by assigning her words a motivation though you don't know her at all and simultaneously giving the pretense of empathy. Well played.
Ok.
What I meant:
Anna, I have read your threads and your angry response to my post impressed me as an expression of anger at being 'single', being judged, and the hurt your husband has caused you. It was an impression, nothing else. If it hurt or offended you I am sorry as that was not my intention.
I am glad to see you are moving forward and handling your life as well as you do. You are clearly a survivor.
I know that I am glad I am NOT single, it sucks having to restart your life again after losing what you thought was your 'soulmate for life', and feeling like others are judging you and your life. Especailly when the reasons for this are 'crazy'.
I hope I was clear in my explanation that its' MEN IN BARS that I don't trust, and married woman who are in the emotional state we all were in during the DB'ing are prey, given that we all hurt and are feeling lonely. I did not mean YOU, a stable, grounded woman, I meant it in the context of GH's wife and others.
I was one of those men once (long long ago...). I know how we think.
Burgbud, you don't know me. Which is probably why my posting short responses are not clear enough since 'knowing me' would help you to realize that I care a lot more than you can imagine. I'll need to remember that not everyone knows my intended message when I don't clarify it well enough. One of the pitfalls of being used to posting to the same people over and over so I know that THEY know 'what I mean'.
