Quote: As newly single woman, I object to Frank's characterization of single women hanging out at bars, trolling for men.
Good, I would object too if I had said that. But I didn't. I said:
Quote: The MEN at those places are there for one reason.
I did not say women were 'trolling' for men. In fact I used to know lot's of single women who went to bars to hang out, dance together and have fun. And they were annoyed when some men would hit on them.
I was pointing out that MARRIED women should not go to bars with ONLY SINGLE women. Why? Because the MEN there do not differentiate between them. Because single women have a different view of the men they meet in those social situations than a married woman should. And of course I mean a 'married' woman in the context of these boards. Someone who is thinking of LEAVING the marriage.
Quote: not having a man to keep us line...
I see you are still hurt. I do not believe ANY woman needs a man to 'keep her in line'. I'm sorry you were hurt.
GH: I don't know why I thought your W was going out to bars with friends. I'm reading too many threads and getting people confused. I need a vacation.
Regarding the boob job and stuff, I agree with everyone else. My W has the same reasons, want's her body to be more like it was before kids, not trying to be 'young again', just repairing the damages. There is nothing wrong with that as long as she knows you find her attractive either way.
