Frank thanks for the advice but I don't think I ever said my W wanted to go to bars with single women. In fact she wants to go to a resturant and then back to her sister's house with her and another mutual friend. Other than them, all her friends are married with kids too and the most they do is go out to dinner. That's all she wants to do according to her.

My W hates bars and her club days are long over (her words, not mine). I am completely comfortable with where she wants to go and who she wants to go with. In any even, like I said, and this is more agreeing with Anna, if things were "ok" in our marriage then these things would be a non-issue.

GH


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