GH, It just occurs to me that you are falling into "taking care" of her. I just feel like she's got you racking your brain to figure out what she should do. Is this a pattern you got into before with her? Being taken care of can create resentment too. It indicates that you don't believe the other person is capable of making good, adult decisions (even if the A bears that out!) Just some thoughts for you to ponder. Don't forget about you, guy!
