Quote: I mean my W said that I have NOT changed but I know that's a lie or at least something she said just trying to get a rise out of me. Hell, maybe she believes it's true
I think it's quite possible that it's not a lie, that she actually believes it. I think she's still very focused on her inner world and hasn't been paying a lot of attention to what's going on outside. It's much easier to recognize things that are the same when you are trying to compartmentalize things - you're trying to make your life a static object you can get your mind around and understand. I think she knows you have grown and changed, but the characteristics in yourself that you have changed your responses to still exist, and always will. I think it will take her more time to see your committment to these changes. For now though, it's not all about you to her.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
