Hi GH, Nice to see your post. I am feeling particularly impatient this morning, so it is helpful to see your steady patience. Although right now I am not sure how any of us do it And I am just pissy enough to wonder why we want to anymore So thank goodness for you GH.

I suspect everything is fine in your sitch. It always sounds to me like your W needs to figure out what it will take in life to make her happy, and you just need to keep the focus on you and giver her lots of space. The only thing I can say to you, is whenever possible don't make the "pressuring" type comments like you did in the movie theatre about the love scene. I know that kind of indirect "why don't we ever..." is a real turn off to me. On the other hand, if you say "I want to try that out as soon as we get home, are you game?" with a little smile, that is more straight, direct and sounds like a man who knows what he wants and is on his way to getting it, one way or the other. I just wanted to encourage you, in your language, to be more assertive about what you want, then ask her if she wants to play. If not, off you go, to play with someone else or somewhere else. Keep her guessing. She totally thinks you are waiting around for her. Don't ! at least don't make it seem like you are at her beck and call.

You're the best GH. Back to exercise is good! I wish I could trade some of your patience for my "screw you H" attitude right now. Lucky I will have a coaching call with DB coach Chuck in 1/2 hour. More later

PositivelyListening
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When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller