Hi GH, I hope today finds you both well. What's going on down there in FL, you both seem to be sick alot. Could it actually be caused by stress???
In any case, intimacy does not necessarily mean intercourse. I think intimacy, is kissing, touching, hand holding, cuddling, etc. and I think you guys are there. To go any further you both need to feel safe, an uninhibited (sp) with eachother. So much as happened over this past year so it will take a while for those feelings to return. But I guarantee, they will return and you WILL have a wonderful M, eventually!