Nine Months and loosing ground

[missingwifey]

Do these WAW have a radar that sounds an alarm in their head when the LBS decides to let go for good? Mine does.

I emailed her a letter yesterday (last last resort). I didn't want to cry or stumble over my words or say anything that would be inappropriate. As soon as She got the email she she immediatley has S9 call me....knowing I wouldn't talk to her. A couple minutes into my conversation with S9 she grabs the phone. She tells me that she doesn't want to loose me and that she couldn't handle not talking with me anymore. I told that it was her decision and until OM is gone there is nothing for us to talk about other than the kid's needs.

We talked another 25 minutes and she invited me to come BBQ with her and the kids last night. Shocked, I accepted. I did say I would only do this if she was willing to start down the road of dumping OM. She said she was ready to talk. The jist of the our conversation at her house is this. She recognized the changes I have made....and likes what she sees. She is ready to end things with other man as soon as they conclude their business together (they have 4 listings and 2 in escrow right now). I told her I understood finishing their business (its alot of money). I also told her that I expected when their business is concluded that she cut off 100 percent of their contact and that we will probably have to move. She has agreed.

Tomorrow she goes into the hospital for her "procedure". Her mother is going with her and I am going to take the kids until she is up and around. She doesn't want to see me until next week some time because she thinks it will be to emotional for her. Many years ago she miscarried and had to have an emergency DNC. It was weeks of depression afterward. So, I am going to respect her wishes and stay away completely....I'm sure OM is going to be around which really upsets me. So thats where I at. Tony, thank you so much for your support. You were right there must have been signs I couldn't see because I had given up all hope and never would have thought that she would pursue me....especially immedaitely after saying goodbye to her.
I'll keep your guys posted....still not out of the woods.