Try not to think about it. It's not easy I know but go back and read what FA wrote on your thread about the OM.

I deal with the OM thing on a daily basis, but I don't know how much of the truth her really knows. My W could be lying to him. Supposedly she did before and she could be doing it now. So we can't blame the OM for everything.

Try viewing your W as being sick. And look at the positives. She is at least talking to you. I only get that when it is about the kids or the D papers.

Keep your head up!!! And focus on you and not him. You only give him power when you think of him.

M-35 going on 15
D-8
S- 3 yrs
ex-CL(w)- 30

D over one year

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