loosing hope and hurting

[seporateddadof2]

nothing too spectacular is going on this week. The birthdays went off without a hitch. I had flowers sent to my W job and brought her and her boss lunch at work. Then my W boss and I sang her happy B-day. It was nice. we havent talked much in the last couple of days. my DB coach advized that I lay low for a while cause the D talk could have been a result of me persuing behavior. I have backed off R talk completely and have gone a little dark also. with the exception of her B-day. Its wierd sometimes I see that look in her eye or a tone in her voice that convinces me she loves me. The rest of the time there is nothing. we could be strangers or aquantences as far as anyone else would know. DB coach also said after a few weeks of darkness I should focus on the friendship again. Im glad I have a couple of weeks cause Im not sure how to go about it. my usual M.O. is pretty lovey stuff. bringing her smoothies to work, calling her to tell her im thinking about her, romantic stuff. any sujjestions? thanks S