I have to agree with Flip. But you will have to look at yourself and figure out what keeps you going when your heart is not in it. If your heart was not still in it you most likly would not be here looking for advise. My sitch is similar to yours however you are a lot further alone than I am. I am just now getting the de-tach portion working for me. Keep your chin up and do what is best for you and your Daughters.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
