I agree with you.. and you are doing a pretty good job of being patient and waiting.. do the DB thingys.. and GAL.. looks like you have alot of hobbies etc..in your favor there. That has to be hard for you that your "friend" used his relationship with you to take advantage of your situation. I think you are handling it well though. Maybe concentrate on the things that earlier had your W looking back at you.. or atleast thinking about moving out of OM's place ? Just a thought.

I am sure someone else will chime in on your thread who is a veteran on these things btw. That is the best thing about this place. Hang in there !

Tom