loosing hope and hurting

[seporateddadof2]

I told her that I would like it if she called me a couple of times a week to talk without wanting something. I also want family time with our 2 girls. and time together to talk and hang out. She didnt get upset or run away. She now calls me every couple of days or so to talk. we email each other regularly. she suggested that we start family time with a open house for our D5 new school on the 31st this mo. thats basicly the list I dont remember the rest of the details on that. It happened towards the end of a tearful R talk. she told me that she was getting tired of OM and her current sitch. She said she felt that there was a poss that we could work things out. She is hoping that OM will be moving out soon. That she was only with him bc he paid attn to her and she wanted someone to hang out with.... those are the highlights. I was talking to her on the phone Fri and she got off saying she had someone on the otherline. I Ass u me it was OM. dk didnt ask. doesnt even matter she is still living and spending rec time with OM. I hear her saying that she is confused and doesnt know what she wants or what to do about it. Im just happy that she is considering us as a possibility and she is thinking instead of procrastinating. At least for now.