That was a little joke. Actually, the Berman Center website has a lot of good info - especially for women with issues of desire, menopause etc... They have a few "kegel" exerciser thingies, as well as various vibes that are supposed to be one's that women have said they prefer. Actually, I found the site through Drugstore.com.
I was really never much into the sex toy deal - a little "buzzing" on my clit doesn't really rock my world like interaction between two people does. I can get myself off no problem but it is the connection, the not being 100% sure of how and where that person will touch, of not knowing what will happen in the encounter - soft and slow or hard and fast? that is what I really like. I dated a guy in college for a little while who I didn't reallly think was that attractive but when we kissed you never knew if he was going to kiss slow and easy, if he was going to suck on your tongue, bite a little - I liked that so I hung out a little longer than I should have. We didn't ever have sex but I think he would have been very interesting in bed.
