Quote: I'm beginning to think that none of us has a clue as to what makes someone want to fcuk us. I'm not talking about what our partner finds attractive, why our partner was attracted to us, or even what turns our partner on. I'm talking about what makes them reach out physically and make it happen.
Actually I do know some answers to this question in my sich and that is part of what depresses me. If I act like a b*tch and threaten to leave or have sex with another man that will work. Watching "College Girls Go Wild" on TV with him will quite possibly work also. Initiating sex and then bursting into tears when I am rejected also has around a 50% success rate. Maybe it's less a matter of LD/HD and simply a matter of incompatibility since I am increasingly unwilling to do any of these things that might work. I'm not even willing to threaten to leave anymore by saying something like "I will not stay in a sexless marriage". When I'm ready to go, I'll just go.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
