Mojo, I guess the way I pursue a man is to look for ways that I can be his soulmate... not in a way that falsifies who I am... but I see something he wants or wants to be and I get that for him or encourage him to get that for himself. So I guess I want a man to see into my soul, too, and honor what he sees there.
BTW the wonderful lover I had for years that I sometimes refer to was a 7.
