___________________________________________________________ Re: H and the butt rubbin, here is what I do with my H. I will ask a leading question that forces him to own up to his intentions. Of course, he instantly turns it back on me "well how are you feeling?" etc but I don't let that phase me. I don't answer the question but instead answer, "I think I can guess how YOU are feeling.." with a smile in my voice. I want him to own his desire. Even though it's been several years, he still struggles with this. No matter. I'm persistent, lol. I need him to lead the encounter. I need him to pursue me, anything else ends up with me feeling weird..not sure if he even notices. Anyway, my advice is to speak up when he does this--I actually think he'd be relieved _______________________________________________________
