H is getting buttered up all right. The planets have aligned so that we have had no sexual contact since before our IUI three weeks ago. Between evening business engagements, a family trip that had baby in our bed tossing and turning and business travel for the next three days I am supressing a giggle at H's apparent frustration over sex. He repeatedly mentions it and today when he said goodbye to go on his business trip he had both hands on my rear and I got the impression that he was saying goodbye to my azz more than me. OTOH - my small level of worry that I will have another miscarriage has made me kind of complacent about the lack of sex so I've been kinda mum on the issue. Why is it that he wants me most when he can't have me or when I am feeling less interested than usual? Actually he COULD have had me multiple times over the last three weeks but it would require out of the box sexual thinking that H just doesn't seem to do - he could have had the kids watch the baby in the evening and taken thirty minutes to "talk" with me in private in our bedroom. He could wake up early like I do and join me in the shower. I would be late to work but I'd live. However, he placidly let the last three weeks pass and now, is sexually frustrated. Maybe it will be enough to light a fire under him.
Other things are good. My ultrasound is next Monday. That will tell us if things are looking ok.
