___________________________________________________________ Karen any chance her H's butt rubbings are an attempt to get you to escalate to taking charge? _______________________________________________________
Yes I think they are an attempt at that or at least an H type compliment of sorts. However, last night I went to bed at 11:30 (my alarm rings at 6am) and he didn't come to bed until an hour or so later, then the baby woke up restless and ended up in bed with us too. The only reason we allow her in our bed is because we don't want her to disturb DD9 who she shares a room with. Anyway, H had come to bed and was "all up on me" cuddling in the spoon position, when baby cried I thought "$$%$$". I think I actually heard an audible sigh when I left the cuddle position - he does actually enjoy some contact with me.
Have you ever just whapped your H and said, 'when you say -take me I am yours -you are stealing my line? and futhermore your religious repressions and incorrect social conditioning are preventing you from having a really amazing sex life with me?' and then give him the blow by blow how and whys? You said logical convos work with him. Whap him with it. soon. or tease him.... its too bad you are sick. and then give a graphic description of how great sex would be right then. if he werent sick. HP's ideas were good too about training Mr.Pot __________________________________________________________
Well I do like the first idea. Lately he hasn't used that line but remains on his back while rubbing me wherever he can reach. So I'm thinking of a modification to...."I'd like to be the one on my back tonight..." I have confronted the "sick" issue before and let him know what he was missing. He looked at me like he was a chemo patient to whom I was saying, "Too bad you won't be eating this delicious chocolate cake." - shocked that I would say something in such bad taste to someone who was so clearly suffering.
Go figure.
He leaves for his annual "Boy trip" on Saturday morning. Tonight we have a "date" to a fundraiser that my agency attends every year. I plan to get home early enough to get all dressed up and look hot, hot, hot. It is a long drive through some country roads to the place. Maybe I'll see if I can get him to pull over on the ride home. Got a new pink lace bra/panties ensemble to wear under my dress.
