I suppose BB sees me walking away as me being moody I should have said, on a few occasions, a day or two later BB told me I was being moody when I walk away. I did tell her why but gave her the softer version.
The rest is HERS to deal with. Sometimes I do the Schnarch version and some times I try to smooth things over, attempt to make a repair (per John Gottman, as in the book) "The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships" which takes a different approach than Schnarch. The trick is which method to use in what situation. Amazon The Relationship Cure: page
