The bedroom is air-conditioned. We even have a remote control and can get the room down to 60f/15.5c. Daytime temps range from 55f/12.7c at night to 85f/29.4 in the late afternoon. Sorry that the other parts of the country is so warm. I hope some if this cooler stuff arrives to where you live soon.
Not much new here. I am still keeping busy and not trying to get BB to see my way by doing more for her. I am avoiding most of the things I see as P/A and not doing anything for spite or that appears getting even, but BB said I was being grumpy to her.
We did have some conversations about old subjects where she said I don't support her, take other peoples side, that they have something against her or have it in for her.
I said "have it in for you" that is what I don't see. I see people looking at things from their POV, not that they want to get your goat and that is where we differ. I said I was trying to help her feel better, that no one was out her, even when they made a cutting remark.
ME: So I am at a point of trying to be a supporting H but not promote what I see as an over reaction on BB's part.
I know some people will say, stay out of the tar pit. I agree. What I did this time was to hold on to a sturdy tree and extend a hand. I also felt as if I was pushing a button on a remote control and expecting something to happen, but it didn't. That is till the 250'th try.
It was like the TV was on channel 2 and I wanted to watch channel 10. The remote control was very simple and only allowed the operator to move one channel at a time.
I was on channel 2 and now, after pressing the up button 250 times I am on channel 3.
Moving on: Now that the bedroom's temperature can be adjusted to something under 70f/21c, I tried to do More body contact things but the fall out <mostly in my mind> which I didn't post here, has me reluctant to do much of anything physical. I remember "kiss and make up" but that feels like it was so long ago I almost forgot how to do it. Where is the line between making up and rescuing and just getting what I want.
Guess I better keep throwing out my old printers (quantity 15) that sold for $2,500 new, but are now worth $10. Most were non-working trade-ins and I didn't pay much for them. They were handy for parts but the market has moved on. Printers don't depreciate as fast as computers, so I am thankful for that. I bailed out of computer hardware when Windows 95 came out.
I have made comments about my situation on other threads and thought I should make them on my own thread.
Lou
Remote Controls, they are everywhere but.....not in relationships.
