Lou, This is exactly what I've been trying to get at with you. Your approach to BB IS still you trying to get her to do things your way. Even though you at times reason it out to...I'm pointing out inconsistencies, or flaws in her reasoning etc.
It really doesn't matter. Drop the reins...let her do things in her own manner and stop trying to guide her to understand things from your POV.....at all. I think Lil hit on the perfect word that would draw the parallel between you and my dad (since you've asked) it comes across as nit-picking.
I can guarantee you my Dad believes he's helping, when he's trying to show me or my mom how things "should" be done...when really Lou, from our perspectives...he's just showing us that we are doing it wrong because it's not done his way.
Honestly, it's something for you to put some thought into. If BB can go to church by herself and go from church to church as much as she pleases...why do you have to go with her? You have the option of finding a church YOU like and sticking with it. Nothing says you have to go together. If BB doesn't care for the fact that you don't attend to gether, that's HER problem to deal with not yours. You have the right to worship wherever YOU choose, and if you like the stability of one church over several....then that is your option.
