No I don't have to be BB's police man. I don't want to be.
It is usually BB that wants to go some place new. I make friends at the old place, get involved and then she paints a picture like the people I see as friendly, to her they are some what self-centered, or someone puts up a volunteer list and BB sees that as asking too much of the members. After that happens, BB wants to drop out.
If I go alone, she acts insecure sometimes. I guess I have to not care as much what BB thinks or feels.
You're making yourself nuts, Lou. You're too good a man and too young to go crazy! What I am feeling is, "here we go again," but not in a "nuts/crazy" fashion. Who knows, maybe BB will like the bigger congregation setting.
This time I made a call before we went to anything and asked about non-religious activities and men's groups. There are two I am going to attend by myself, and one as a couple.
You're too good a man and too young to go crazy! Thanks Lil.
