Lou,

That was kind of you to make such a thoughtful post. I have downloaded the forms and will ask W to join me in filling them out.

I actually have no idea about what kind of looks my W is attracted to. She occasionally mentions that she likes something I am wearing, but she never says that another man looks good. She has said disparaging things about the process of my ML to her.

Your idea of asking her how her needs are being met is a good one. I'm not sure she even thinks along those lines, but we will find out.

Thanks!

Paul