Good question about why she fell in love with me. I don't think she ever did. So why did she marry me? In fact it was she who insisted we marry and she who insisted we have children. Yes, I had the same latent desires, but she brought them to the surface.
How have I changed? We both have careers now; before we were as poor as churchmice. We still have a few relics from our thrift store shopping days. I am heavier now, and much more conservative in outlook. Regarding my relationship w/ W, I am somewhat less clueless. If I do something I can be fairly sure of the consequences. I know how not to pi$$ her off, but not how to please her.
Thanks for asking. I'll be thinking about that for a while.