Are you sure about that? I looked into it a little and found guidelines that said the dependent spouse was entitled to a small percentage of the base pay and the diff between BAH and BAH w/ dependents. That would come out to be less than half of what H sends now. Of course he has lots of nice allowances on his ship right now.
I think I will do the free consult thing. Not because I'm ready to file, but because if I would be entitled to more, it might help with the fear issue.
I would just like to know what decision I would really make if fear was taken out of it.
