Open mouth, insert foot on the sibling issue, lol.
On the concern about finances, not to bring up a dark subject for any other reason than to help you qualm your fears but the Former Spouses Relief Act of 1992 will ensure that you are WELL taken care of in the event of a D. Believe me, in this day and age, the woman usually comes out waaaay ahead in the money dept during a military D and I know because I went through it. If you don't believe me, get a free consult with a family law attorny for the facts.
DISCLAIMER: Not endorsing divorce (wouldn't be here if I did) but with your financial fears, it would be reassuring to know the facts. RonJon
