((Opti)), Think you/your mom may have hit upont something there:
Quote: she wished H had an older brother!
My ex has a younger sister who's cuter and available, beats having to break in a new MIL
Just a way to make us realize that there are always options, when you're more upbeat, sit down and try to brainstorm some. So the 180 of not returning e-mails quickly or lengthily didn't work out, don't beat yourself up about it, try another channel. Maybe he's the type that needs a direct call and frank discussion about the R; know DBing says to shy away from R talk but if you've tried everything else, what is left? To paraphrase my old favorite show, "The answer is out there" RonJon