Yes, Ron Jon, know that you mention it, I remember that story in the DB book too.
Another thing came to mind...someone on the board posted about "releasing" his WAW. He just told her one day that he let her go. No anger. Just told her, that he knew it was her wish, so he released her.
I'm thinking about doing something like this with H. The difference is, I guess, that H hasn't expressed a wish to leave. But, he hasn't expressed a wish to be together.
Maybe when we get to the point of talking about his transfer again (which could be months), I will do this. I don't think that I want to re-ask my question about whether he WANTS us to live together again. So, I'll just have to wait until the moment is right, I guess.
