If you're done and tired of limbo then yes, you need to decide your next step. But it seems your goal right now is to 180 or downmanship to get some communication going or a response from your H. True?
I remember those times too when H was so attentive and took care of me when I was sick or if my back went out or after surgery. He was so great, and I am not a good patient. Now I feel like I can't even share my health issues with him, he doesn't care. I did mention my obvious hot flash one time when he was present, he looked at me like I was an alien but did say 'oh, starting menopause?' Sweet.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
