((Opti)), Might I suggest going back and reading Michelle's article on the Walk Away Wife because that last post exhibits many characteristics in it. As for
Quote: how seriously unhappy and ignored wives can get their husband's attention before they decide to give up and leave. And you know what...nobody has a freaking answer. Not even the LBS men.
As a LBS man I can tell you how my attention was gotten and life behavior changed occurred. It was when my W filed for D. Unfortunately, in my case, she had already decided to give up and move on and didn't realize the change in men (me) was permanent like Michelle says it can be. Believe she realizes it now but is not ready to admit it (except to me on summer vacation) and considers not going through moves/jobs/other MLC issues the easier path.
In your case you could say you filed or actually file which can be retracted later but the problem with that is you're staring down the abyss if it doesn't work and that what makes it so hard for so many to pull that trigger. Just would not like to see you check out and get past the point of no return with H never even knowing its happening like in my instance.
Please realize I'm certainly not encouraging anything, just noting observations and recommend you read the article and Michelle's other work. Don't let concerns about moving or jobs drive the decision would be my other advice, you have control and every day is an opportunity. RonJon
