Quote: but is it possible the H doesn't call because he knows that is exactly what you want? It's a control game?
Yes, that's definately possible. But I can't really say if he does or doesn't know why I've cut back on the emails or even how much it even impacts him. That's all just trying to guess what's in his head again. All I can do, I figure, is try the change for a while and monitor his reaction-if any.