Wait, are you sure they were rowing or were they using brooms on the ice? bbbrrrr But that is pretty cool (bad joke). Way to go!
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a package came in the mail for S4 with no return address. It was the Charlie Brown holiday movies.

Here's what I think you should have done. Email H, tell him about the package that came for S4, and then speculate who you think it came from. Reality though, isn't that neat that H sent something? it shows he does think about his family.

Those phone calls, or lack of, are really burning you down. You do need to unfocus from that. Yeah, it sucks, but is it possible the H doesn't call because he knows that is exactly what you want? It's a control game?

What brand scale did you get? I want one too!

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