RonJon- H has often used the "I thought you were to busy too..." excuse. He used it when he acted like he was in a hurry to say goodbye to S4 and I and get back to his parents during his leave. First he hinted that I should follow him down to his parents. I thought about it for a night before responding, then the next day when I offered, he didn't respond. And when I went into my corner to cry about it he said he just thought it was too much trouble for me to go to-that I was too busy.
Even though it feels to me like I am always available and sometimes even pursuing with my recent emails about "do you want us to be together," he still says he thinks I'm too busy or it's too late to inconvenience me with a phone call. I'm not sure if it's an excuse, or he really feels that way. Maybe sometimes it's one and sometime's it's the other.
ANYWAY...I did email H back last night. First I responded to his "where are you?" email with "nothing new here." After I hit send I had second thoughts and felt like that might have really come across and spiteful after his last three emails. So I also sent a short response to his email about the truck expense, saying "thank you for the info on the truck-I agree that's probably the best way to go for now." There, that softened things up.
Of course, I was anxious to see his response this morning. And there was none. Ha! Joke's on me. Two can play this game.
So, let me get off that for now... Focus! 1. Today I need to stick to the food I brought in to eat, and have a nice healthy dinner. No candy dishes! 2. Today I need to get off this BB and focus on the major task at work. Stay on task Opti!
