It's late tonight and I need to get S4 and I to bed. But I wanted to mention that your response to my question about PCSing on your thread (now locked up) was appreciated. It really did make me think about the stressors of transfers and how much that has to do with issues in my M. Although in our case, my H is the one who doesn't like the moves, even though he's the one that's still in.
So thanks for that. And I'll look you up tomorrow to see if you've started a new thread.