(((Opti))), Don't know what to say, can't tell from your postings where H's head is at. Can he really expect to go on indefinitely with just a visit a year and only 3 hrs alone time with you? Doesn't make sense. Hear that it's OK to write e-mails when angry or sad but best not to send it right away, save and go back later to see if you still want to send. As always, in your corner, have a good Labor Day, RonJon
