WCW- I just wanted you to know that your advice is well heeded.
Quote: If you push him for a decision because YOU need to have one, we can probably all guess at what his decision will be. It's up to you to decide if it's more important to get his decision now because you want it, or to give him the time he needs to take to make his decision. Even then, it may not be the decision you would like.
Right now, I don't feel a great need for him to give me a decision on anything. In the past I have. But now that I have solid proof that he can flip flop this way, if he did give me a decision I wouldn't be able to trust it. There's a little relief in that. He doesn't hold the key anymore.
I guess the only exception to that is if he'd be OK with selling the house anytime between now and a year from now. He could really screw things up by saying "no." Let's just hope he doesn't feel the need to torture me.
Quote: I'm not saying that you should put your life on hold to wait for his decision. Maybe he can't handle you enhancing your carreer and making moves to better yourself, then it's his problem to deal with which will still turn into your problem. Just don't make these moves to spite your H, make them because it is what you truly need to do for yourself and your family.
This is excellent advice WCW, and I intend to follow it very carefully. I'm moving on with my life and letting the chips fall where they may with H. When I make a move it will only be because it is what's best for S4 and I, not because I am expecting H to react one way or the other to it.
