Quote: ...I'm pretty sure he fits the definition for an alcoholic
Okay, I had not seen this when I responded to you on my thread. Please Opti, I urge you... try another meeting. Don't say anything if you don't want to or don't feel you can. The people in the meeting will understand.
Don't wait until you are my age to realize you may need this, and even if you do move on away from your H your son will benefit from you going.
Stepping down from my soapbox...
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011