Opti I am sorry as well that you are going through this. I can just imagine how defeated you must feel. I have no advice right now, but just wanted to let you know I am still following along. I keep hoping that your H will surprise you and show up.
I think if you can pull off acting as if while he is there it will be a major coup. I know it is not good Db'ing but I think I would want to ask him what changed, since the last time you were together you were talking about another child... right?
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
