hey hon, sorry to hear there isnt' progress from his side.
You dont' have to be back to that scary place you were before, I am glad that you've arent' in denial anymore, you can make it and you CAN be happy just like you were before you were w/him. This truth set me free to be my own person and to have more confidence in myself, to understand that I could make it w/my 2 kids, thank heavens for our families too. I do commend you for the fact that you told him you do want him in your son's life, you are being a great mother, sometimes anger want us to disassociate totally from the alien that where our H's, but for the children's sake we need let the men be fathers, that they aren't getting off the hook that easy, they help bring the children into this life then they will share the responsibility.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
