okay I have a little more time now, I will try to be more articulate.
You are right, they would probably just waive that because he is already Geo. It wa sa joke anyway, they don't really look for anything and would probably over look it if they did find a problem.
I guess my point from earlier is that I could see once your H got to spend some time with S4 and you at his parents like before that he might again come around, but only if handeled with kidd gloves.
Can you pursue your dreams of a career without giving him the if/or question? What if you actually got some interest from the west coast before you had to bring that into the equation?
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011