All right, I'm still pissed with H. But, true to my word, I took yesterday to vent and feel angry and this morning it's time to get down to business.
So before my last thread locks up I'll start a new one and set up links from old to new.
Recap: Me:31, living in the midwest with our S3 H:34, in the military, living and working on a ship in AK
In summer 2004, immediately after we all moved to AK, H dropped the bomb. Claimed no OW. We were separated for 5 months before I moved again to the midwest to be near my mom. H never filed for D as he claimed he would and after a year and a half of living separately we re-established a long distance relationship. We've been communicating as a married couple for a year now. H is due for a 3.5 week leave very soon, but has again started talking like the depressed, angry person he was when he dropped the bomb, although he hasn't said anything about our R or ending it again.
I've got to get to work, but I'll be back to post my new goals and steps today. It is a new day after all.
